Fridgie (Neil, the Jamaican who does dishes) and his girlfriend Kamisha are going to be getting married soon! Linda (the founder) had brought his girlfriend down a wedding dress a few weeks ago when she was here. Well anyways Kamisha is deaf and can sign some. That week that Linda was here we just happen to have a high school teacher, Dawn, who teaches sign languages as one of her courses. She was signing to Kamisha like crazy because no one down here knows how. Anyways Linda had given her a trash bag that held her wedding dress in it one evening. Kamisha didn’t even open the bag at first to look at it. I had heard that she was getting a dress so I went out into the courtyard to go find out if she had gotten it and looked at it. Well Dawn asked her if she wanted to take it out of the bag and look at it and she did. She opens the bag and her eyes got SO BIG! I mean for a girl that was deaf and can’t talk you could tell how happy and excited she was. She held the dress up to her and looked at it and just smile and tears started to roll down my face for her happiness. She was so genuinely thrill to have her own dress. The dress isn’t anything that we Americans would consider stylish or contemporary. It was yellowing in certain places and it looked like my mom’s wedding dress covered in lace. It just made me think while Erin Shaffer is taking pictures of her how in America we are so consumed with getting the right dress. We get to try on as many dresses as we want and we get to be able to make this whole experience of going dress shopping. She did not even have the opportunity to get to pick her dress let alone try any on. We are so fortunate to have the financial resources and many different brands and stores to go buy a dress at. It was so cool to see how happy and content she was with what was given to her. She was so genuinely thankful for receiving that dress. I was so glad to be able to be a part of that experience with her.
Ashlee Bilton